Hey, I’ve got a cool audio for you that other guys won’t be able to hear until this coming week…
It’s an interview I did with Lance Mason on the subject of approaching during the day…
This is from my radio show, so you’ll have to put up with high production values. ![]()
And when you’re done listening, go check out my new Approach Program as soon as you can.
This is the approach program that was 3 years in the making.
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Approach Women 2 Real Alpha Daygame



Sudden end, but great stuff. Lance is that guy.
Excellent point about what a genuine smile projects. It is key.
Comment by Stefan — August 10, 2008 @ 10:04 am
Loved it! You two riff well together, man…
Comment by Iggy — August 10, 2008 @ 10:37 am
Glad you guys like it! I had a lot of fun recording it, too.
(Though, not clear on what the "sudden end" thing is about… (?))
What else would you guys like to know about this stuff?
What's giving you the most grief?
Comment by Carlos — August 10, 2008 @ 10:38 am
Carlos thanks for posting the interview with Lance. The change in mindset is what many guys have yet to accomplish and remove the pressure from themselves. I don't sarge anymore. I reframed it into something that makes me totally competent,confident, and cool. I simply call it"good vibrations." It totally improve my learning curve. Peace,lvoe and succe SS
Comment by ester — August 10, 2008 @ 12:45 pm
Hi Carlos, love your advice!
Listen, I have a question that I don't think you've answered.
When is the right time to cut your loss on a girl who just wants to e-mail you. She tells you she wants to visit (she lives 3 hours away) but always find a reason to flake off. We still write e-mails back and forth almost everyday, but i'm thinking she's accepting me as just a form of fantasy. And this is frustrating to me. Now i've had this kind of "relationship" with other girls where we just exchange e-mails. But it almost always fell. So when is the deadline time since you start e-mailing a girl for cutting your loss? Hope you understand what i'm talking about. This has been frustrating for my dating life since college time.
Comment by Phil — August 10, 2008 @ 2:52 pm
You have a radio show? Since when? Where?
Comment by jim — August 10, 2008 @ 3:22 pm
Phil, Been there, done that, read that novel wayyy to many times. No offense dude but this girl is treating you this way because you allow it. Yeap! I said it, sorry pal, your allowing her to disrepect you. This is definitly not the kinda of woman you want in your life. Chances are she "emails" and texts you whenever she hits a low point in her mood and knows you'll validate her ego. My general rule with these types of situations are "if you have to ask, chances are that you know the answer". You probably should cut this girl off.
Comment by Jim — August 10, 2008 @ 3:32 pm
Carlos, you're the man I need to talk to seriously . My luck with women has finally ran out . I'm in the Army, I recently came back form basic training and all types of individual training. I feel like the Army took my swagger and left me , an emotionless body I feel little compassion for anybody. I still chill with some of my old friends but that not the point I need some extreme help on talking to women I feel like everthing has been taking from me. I was once able to just look at a beautiful female 5mins. she was giving me here number now Im so nervous I cant even speak to one Im so nervous I dont know how to solve this problem help me out .
Comment by Kevin — August 10, 2008 @ 4:18 pm
Wow, I'm still listening to it. It's really good. Thanks. See, yesterday night I went out with like 5 girls.. And there was this Irish beauty before yesterday in a bar in Amsterdam; and it was really cool - I mean, it was cliche cool. But it wasn't as awesome as I'd wish it to be. I mean, I was trying to give, but I didn't feel like I had it; and now I got it - it's because i was just kissing her, i should've been talking to her - but I wasn't trusting 'the mechanism'. Brilliant. Makes me feel stupid. haha. But I guess that happens often to a bunch of guys. This is great; but what I noticed is that, as much as I'm in the mood, and I do some right things and they make me feel good, like, there's always (maybe not), but generally there's something that makes me feel kind of distant. It's just that part that's making me jiterry - but I guess it'll be over when I start popping the smiles (truth is I do; mabye I'm asking for too much…). So what do you think? Oh yeah, and I forgot to get the Irish girl's phone number. And that dissapointed me; 'cause I thought there was something there.
peace
Comment by Lucas — August 10, 2008 @ 4:18 pm
The comment about the sudden ending - he probably didn't get a full download. This is a big file because of the quality. First time for me I only got about half, second time the full file came down.
Good interview.
Comment by Bobby — August 11, 2008 @ 12:03 pm
The comment about the sudden ending - he probably didn't get a full download. This is a big file. First time I tried I only got about half of it, second attempt it all came down.
Good interview.
Comment by Bobby — August 11, 2008 @ 12:05 pm
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