http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog Dating advice for men and the secrets of attraction and what women want... Tue, 30 Dec 2008 22:13:29 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Okay, here's the deal... I got in an argument the other day with another guru out there (who will remain nameless - at least for now!) We were talking trash about which guys out there are going to get ahead in the next year and have the best stories about their getting ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/i-almost-got-in-a-fight-over-this/ Have you been getting a lot of "scare" mail lately? You know, a bunch of guys telling you that you're going to wind up alone and crying on New Year's Eve if you don't get moving? Well, don't let yourself be frightened. The fact is that if you don't have a date on New ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/dont-let-them-scare-you/ Here's an interesting article I found that sheds some new "social research" light on why men take risks. Not terribly new, if you ask me, but it is interesting that there is consistent information like this out there, and we all still rationalize our behavior for other reasons. If there's one thing ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/flirting-with-women-the-score-factor-of-risk/ QUESTION ABOUT "DIFFICULT WOMEN": What should I do now? You know I've been 'cocky and funny' with girls, but some of them imitate this trait and after awhile you both are in challenge! I dont know what to do with these tough girls. How can I overcome and take her to ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/how-do-you-handle-women-testing-you/ Hey, go watch this video now: UNBELIEVABLE VIDEO It's the latest video from Dave M. and it might be the coolest internet dating video you've ever seen. Seriously. No need to opt in or anything, it'll just play. In this video, Dave goes over a simple technique that shows you how ANYONE can ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/new-video-by-dave-m/ Guys, I'll be appearing at Fort Mason tomorrow night for a group presentation to the San Francisco Lair. You can come on over and see me at 7:00 PM here: Fort Mason Center, building C room 210 Marina Blvd @ Buchanan San Francisco, CA 94123 I'll be covering some of my latest concepts and ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/carlos-appearing-tomorrow-night-in-san-francisco/ Here are a few horror stories I found at sfgate.com. Pretty amusing, and I've added lessons to their stories for you: ______________________ "I met this one girl in a chat room. She lived in Missouri and I live in California. She seemed sweet, and we talked online just about every day. "She had just ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/dating-horror-stories/ Take a look at this image, and tell me what you think of this study. What they did was trace the eye movements of men and women as they looked at a particular advertisement. Their results were very telling. CLICK THE IMAGE BELOW TO SEE THE FULL VERSION:Interesting, isn't it? Women immediately gravitate to ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/the-difference-between-men-and-women/ Coming in January, Carlos will be appearing in Las Vegas with a variety of other guest speakers at the 2009 superconference. Basic Info ----------------- What: Masterful Lover Super Conference 2009 When: January 16-18, 2009 Where: Las Vegas NV Featured Speakers: ----------------------------- David Shade - Will be speaking on a variety of topics of sex and ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/carlos-appearing-in-las-vegas-at-david-shades-seminar/ Well, guys, I've got mixed feelings about today's entry. - It's funny. Some great moments here. Definitely makes a good point about THINKING before you give a woman a gift. But on the other hand: - Yet another way men are shamed into submission and fear of women. But I'll let you decide on ... http://www.carlosxuma.com/dating-tips-for-guys-blog/2008/12/and-even-though-this-is-funny/