I don't think it's a matter of a specific number. More like enough to find someone who meets MY requirements. This will be different for everyone. For example, I live in a quiet town in the beautiful English countryside. A lot of my criteria for a chick include outdoor activities that are not available in my area. I travel to do them but it also means I may have to move out of the area to find a chick that ticks more of those boxes - this could take more time than someone who is living amongst his 'type' already...
Don't get me wrong I'm not thinking in scarcity mode, far from it, I just know I have a strict list of criteria which will take time to meet.
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