The approaching guy Alex Coulson

[dbrooks]

Hey guys,

just wanted to let you know I ran across this approaching guy named, Alex Coulson. (Thanks to Carlos) I been watching his stuff on youtube. Pretty good. This guy added a comment to his video and I wanted to post it here for you to read. Also my response. Enjoy,

dbrooks

http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/...phone-numbers/

"poster"



Hey Alex,

First I would like to thank you for this opportunity for letting me speak my mind here. I first saw your videos on youtube as I was viewing and searching other pick up artist to get this part of my life handled. Pick up artists such as Mystery, Love Systems, black belt seduction, and others in order to find the best pua i would like to learn from being that the internet is flooded with these guys claiming that they have the real deal. I must say though that when I came across your videos I was really impressed because you seemed so relaxed and comfortable when you started approaching these women and the women were really enjoying your company. I have never seen that before in any other videos, plus, you weren’t arrogant or being a jerk about it as other dating gurus tend to be at times. However, I do question highly if your methods will work for me being that I’m an American guy of mixed race. My problem when approaching women , especially white American women is that they are either jadded, racist, snobby, and have very bad attitudes towards men in general and people of color. Heck, before I even open my mouth to speak they turn me down or simply walk away. This is and always have been a common problem with women in the U.S. I notice that in all of your videos the women are very polite, happy, nice, foreign, and predominantly white. I have never seen you approach women of color in your videos or white American women. Neither have I ever seen any men of color or of mixed race approaching white women in any country displayed on your videos. They are always from London, Austraila, or eastern Europe or other foreign countries. Don’t get me wrong, I really adore and like international women and women of any ethnic background, but I find that the foreign women are always much easier to talk to which is a good thing, it’s just that I don’t live in those countries. Another problem I have with your videos is that there are no fat, ugly, old, or bald men interacting with beautiful women as your advertisement claims is possible using your method of approach. I won’t be convinced that your video dating product will work for me until I see people of all races, ethnic groups, and nationalities interacting with one another. Until then, my search for a REAL dating product shall continue. Thus far, no dating expert has yet to realize this fact that I just explained above. So, Alex Coulson, will you be the first to step up to the plate and start showing people of color in your videos? If you ever do and your method of meeting and dating women REALLY works, then i can truly say that I finally found the very FIRST dating product that works for ALL men.


"My response"

Hi Arthur, I just watched this video for the first time and also never even heard of Alex until tonight. Please allow me to give you some feedback on your comments. I did notice that Alex has an accent himself. Maybe his approaches with foreign women are because he from somewhere over there too?

I've been all over the world and can tell you women have the same characteristics as the next one even with the culture differences. There are nice girls and mean ones in all parts of the world. Black, white, Asian, whatever. I am sure that as many times as this guy Alex has approached women that we missed the vids where he was turned away by a woman. It happens to all the guys one time or another. The part I admire about him is he approaches with no fear. At least he sure doesn't show it.

I used to know absolutely nothing about talking to girls. You know what I discovered my problem was? It was not finding the right guru to teach me the error of my ways, the problem was me. I was my own worst enemy. I was killing myself with no one to blame but me. I think you can take a lesson from this. The man's job is to approach. The woman's job is to respond. I been all over the world and that fact has not changed where ever I went. Men MUST initiate. A girl may be attracted to you but chances are that she will approach you are very slim to none. We men must approach the girl. Stop worrying about the snobs who turn us away at times. They didn't reject you. They only disqualified themselves from being in our world of fun. (my fun anyway) There could be a million reasons why they act cold. I can only say that there will be girls who will be warm to your approach. Don't give up man! Overcome fear ... approach, approach, approach. Just do it. Hope this helps.