random problems

[sanjay]

hi all.

I have purchased the get a girlfriend fast program, i do find that it seems to say quite a bit that social life and having friends is quite important.

Now there is nothing wrong with me but i have fallen out with a load of reason, dont know why but i am not one to make friends easily so that in turn kinda means my social life and not that great. But i am not so phased and find it to be better in many ways as i dont have stupid friends that cannot move with me when i just wanna approach women, they could only when they are drunk, however, i can anytime. Yeh i do the single holidays and everything. Gotta keep going

But hay i still go out on my own if nned be, just to make sure that i am getting out and about n not stayin in all the time. So is this wrong? because right now its all i have, and am trying hard to keep my head up n keep going.

Yeh am still chatting to as many women as possible.

I guess right now this is my main concern.

[Stephen Willmer]

Originally Posted by sanjay

I have purchased the how to get a girlfriend fast program, i do find that it seems to say quite a bit that social life and having friends is quite important.

It is. Having friends and places to go makes you feel important and desired, as though you are achieving something. It is subconscious, subconscious confidence comes from it and it feels natural from you.

As opposed to staying in all day and creating that confidence yourself all alone (which is VERY tough to do)

Originally Posted by sanjay

Now there is nothing wrong with me but i have fallen out with a load of reason, dont know why but i am not one to make friends easily so that in turn kinda means my social life and not that great.

Nobody makes friends easily. Only people who are like minded through months of regular contact make friends. Another myth of the 'other people have, I don't' syndrome. Making friends genuinely and quickly is very alpha, dont expect those skills to come over night

Originally Posted by sanjay

But i am not so phased and find it to be better in many ways as i dont have stupid friends that cannot move with me when i just wanna approach women, they could only when they are drunk, however, i can anytime.

We all wish our mates could tag along to help us out, to feel less 'in the spotlight' as such. It would be great if the guys would help you out, but they don't. They say "They won't chat with us", "They're this... they're that". The way we used to be right?

We're the only ones that will approach. Thats why we're called Alpha men

Originally Posted by sanjay

But hay i still go out on my own if nned be, just to make sure that i am getting out and about n not stayin in all the time. So is this wrong? because right now its all i have, and am trying hard to keep my head up n keep going.

Yeh am still chatting to as many women as possible.

I guess right now this is my main concern.

Thats great! Going out is important to feeling confident. Being around women makes you feel confident anyway. Mr. Suave didn't get all the chicks because he was sat at home all day. He made mistakes, enjoyed them and learned from them.

Don't make it a 'concern', or something to deal with. Keep at it, keep meeting women and chatting with them. You'll have ten thousand times more success by meeting women than by staying at home. Dont pressure yourself to get 10 numbers this week. It is possible one day. Work daily on your esteem and confidence and you will see results, in the get a girlfriend fast program of Carlos' he teaches you to do this. Quantum Leap your confidence every now and then. Get comfy in that energy level and then leap again.

Its like an learning a musical instrument. Outer game techniques is like sheet music, the notes are there, but have you ever tried playing Johhny B Goode on guitar without knowing the rhythm, feel and beat to the song?

Its the same. Inner game confidence and esteem building is learning the guitar from scratch. If you have the tab (outer game) and try it every once in a while (every month); it won't work.

If you learn the guitar itself and how it works (inner game) and practice daily you will find that eventually you could probably strum out Johhny B Goode from memory of hearing it, never mind know the note for note! Because you have the feeling behind it.

The more you chat to women, the more you feel comfortable and the more likely you are to tease a woman and not give a shit what she thinks. Does she get pissed at this? No! SHE LOVES IT!

I only recenrly learned the power of this TRULY for myself and my god.... Its power could propel you faster than the speed of light (yes I love Star Trek )

Even on women you only just meet. Its like they suddenly have known you for years, then what happens? Suddenly you treat them like you've known them for years. The vibe is great.

Then you say something complimentary or supplicating and WHAM! Back to strangers again. We might not know the person, but we've known who they are inside for thousands of years (evolution)... The modern air headed media and feminists have tainted our computer minds with a bad ass virus... thats what we are appealing to with these courses. The shortcut to get rid of all the crappy programming and get to the goal we all want. Fun, enjoyment, excitment and growth.

Forget the outer game, its WAY too much food to chew on. That comes later. Work on your inner game.


I want to express this, I only recently noticed this about myself.

When joining these courses be aware that you are not learning them so you can lay women to feel worthy and feel self esteem. I guaran-****in-tee you that 99% of guys out there don't get laid just to feel their balls tighten fellas.

Be aware when joining these courses that you are not using them as a way to get laid to feel esteem, or to feel worthy, to inflate your pride and ego. Its false self esteem and women will always have that supply of that self esteem if you let this happen.

I feel it is the most important mindset to understand when entering this world of self improvment and alpha empowerment.

As a great comedian I know perfectly puts:

"A gorilla wouldn't walk into a costume shop and say:

"Got a gorilla outfit".