"I did'nt think I would end up liking you."

[Carter]

For some reason I think this worked in my favour quite well.

Heres the deal, so I've been seeing this one hot ass bitch off the internet for right around 3 weeks now, we've slept together at least 8 times.

Anyways, I told her originaly that I was only 30 8) , but was in fact 32.
Somehow the topic of looking at my license came up and she saw that I was in deed 32 years old.

She was like, "I can't believe you lied to me".
I replied, "That was just my online profile, I did'nt actually think I would end up liking you".
Of course I said this without looking for approval or a reaction from her.
Now, this in no way directly awnsers her question, but by saying this, she did'nt pursue it, and in fact seemed to actually be more into me after that.

In one sense it seems like that would not be the right thing to say because I am directly indicating interest to her, yet on the other hand, it is also indirectly showing that what got me interested in her was not just merely the physical but came on through the evolvement of our relationship together.

Just thought I would share.
Again, it is important that if you say this you do not look for her approval or look like your seeking a specific reaction from her.
And definintely don't say this too early on in the relationship.
I also think this card should only be played "once" in a particular relationship.

Thoughts?

[Joerii]

My first thought is "your saying that lying to people you don't know/like is OK". That doesn't show a lot of integrity...

So...why did you tell her you are 30 when you are really 32 ? Thats what really interests me.

[Carter]

Cause I like younger women and I know that when meeting women online you are screened for things like that.
As far as integrity goes I'm full of it...lol
Integrity to me is the ability to keep your word, which is VERY important to me.( When I say I'm going to do something you can bet your ass I'm going to do it)
Much different then bending the truth on matters that really have no serious implications other than getting laid that night
(Saying my favourite color is Blue when it's really Red, what the **** does it really matter?...it does'nt for my particular outcome)
Because REALLY, the women don't give a shit either after they get a chance to meet me...it's all about having fun and giving them a good time.
Not trying to be their long lost best friend.
If I start to think they are of a quality person I will begin to let them in a little further into my own personal and intimate space.
But until then it is reserved only for people of who I deem to have a certain value to me.

So yeah, I think that it is "OK" to bend the truth with people I just met as long as it's not going to harm anyone.
I'm just trying to help them get what they want already.
Everyone wins.

That's why.
Thanks for your interest.

[c-alpha]

so what happened, is she still coming over ? even though the age thing bothered her ?