People trying to keep me apart from new woman I met

[License2Thrill_007]

I recently met a woman through a friend of mine who I know to wary of because he likes to spread rumours about people even if they are not true that is just how he is. Anyway had a dry spell for a while so thought I would take the risk had nothing else on. I didn't think I would like her anyway turns out we got on really well and had a good time at a bar I drove as all down to town as my friend has been banned from driving since he was caught drink driving last year. My friend and the other woman who is the friend of this woman came and they were all over each other they had known each other for a week and this woman and me only just met and we were holding hands and having a good time. Then we went back to my friends house and stayed and had a couple of drinks one thing led to another. She was fine with it and fine in the morning and we did it again for 6 hours the next time only got 2 hours sleep! and she had to go back to work the next morning. It wasn't just the sex I would have been happy even if I didn't score she was great to be with and really nice she didn't play games or try to disrespect me like some of the other women I had been with or only saw for one date. She said she wants to stay with me and misses me already now I have gone back to university in a different town 3 hours drive away. Only thing is my friend starts to tell my mum I was sleeping with this girl and she is older than me and has a daughter. I tell him off because this is a breach of trust and not the first time I said it is nothing to do with my mum and I don't tell people things about him even though a lot of what he does is illegal. He said I had to she was having a go at me I knew he was lying. This is the last time he grasses me up because I am going to have nothing else to do with him. My mum said she is too old and if it distracts my studies then she will disown me and that she and my dad are supporting me at university so they want to know everything. My dad seems cool but says I should be with someone my own age her daughter would be a better choice at 17 I'm only 24 the Mum is 36. I tell you I have been with younger girls from 18-27 and never had as good sex as I did with her and we really enjoy each other's company no games no crap. No I wait to call her 3 days so she doesn't think I'm too needy or I have to watch out for her tests if she is on the phone to her friends whilst with me I have to call her on it no fake bs. I'm stuck on what to do I am looking for a younger girl but no luck so far and I don't want to hurt this woman's feelings she seems really nice and I like being with her trying to find her a job in my town she is from Eastern Europe but really nice and I can tell when someone is fake I never thought I would end up feeling this way about anyone I am usually the player guy. Any suggestions would be helpful. Cheers.

[M3ISTER]

MY GOD. So many run-on sentences and grammar errors... How did the university you're going to approve your application? No offense, but I have the worst headache now!

*Heads to cabinet, grabs some ibuprofen, and does minor corrections*

Originally Posted by License2Thrill_007

I recently met a woman through a friend of mine who I know to wary of because he likes to spread rumours about people, even if they are not true; that is just how he is. Anyway I had a dry spell for a while, so I thought I would take the risk had nothing else on (clothes? Condom? Please specify). I didn't think I would like her anyway, but it turns out we got on really well and had a good time at a bar, I drove us all down to town as my friend has been banned from driving since he was caught drunk driving last year.

My friend, and the other woman who is the friend of this woman, came and they were all over each other. They had known each other for a week and this woman and me only just met and we were holding hands and having a good time. Then we went back to my friend's house and stayed, had a couple of drinks and one thing led to another. She was fine with it and fine in the morning and we did it again for 6 hours the next time (only got 2 hours sleep)!

She had to go back to work the next morning. It wasn't just the sex, I would have been happy even if I didn't score; she was great to be with and really nice. She didn't play games or try to disrespect me like some of the other women I had been with or only saw for one date. She said she wants to stay with me and misses me already now I have gone back to university in a different town 3 hours drive away.

Only thing is my friend starts to tell my mum I was sleeping with this girl and she is older than me and has a daughter. I tell him off because this is a breach of trust and not the first time I said it is nothing to do with my mum and I don't tell people things about him even though a lot of what he does is illegal. He said I had to she was having a go at me I knew he was lying. This is the last time he grasses me up because I am going to have nothing else to do with him.

My mum said she is too old and if it distracts my studies then she will disown me and that she and my dad are supporting me at university so they want to know everything. My dad seems cool but says I should be with someone my own age her daughter would be a better choice at 17 I'm only 24 the Mum is 36.

I tell you I have been with younger girls from 18-27 and never had as good sex as I did with her and we really enjoy each other's company no games no crap. Now I wait to call her 3 days so she doesn't think I'm too needy or I have to watch out for her tests if she is on the phone to her friends whilst with me I have to call her on it no fake bs.

I'm stuck on what to do I am looking for a younger girl but no luck so far and I don't want to hurt this woman's feelings she seems really nice and I like being with her trying to find her a job in my town. She is from Eastern Europe but really nice and I can tell when someone is fake I never thought I would end up feeling this way about anyone I am usually the player guy. Any suggestions would be helpful. Cheers.

Now it did sound good that you got your jollies on, but what he did was definitely not cool. I assume that the thing about her being much older and having a kid is untrue, correct? Either way, DO remind your parents that he spreads many false rumors. In addition, don't help her find a job; she'll take it as being a wuss.

I wish I can help more, but my ibuprofen hasn't kicked in yet.

[carlosx]

1. Keep an eye on your "friend." He sounds like a punk.

2. Older women syndrome is nothing new. Women in their 30s (and even 40s) are over their hangups about sex, so they LOVE getting it on.

3. Be careful and wary about getting into a relationship over some good sex. Don't confuse good sex with REAL emotions.

Go watch the Eddie Murphy routine where he talks about sex being like a saltine cracker to a starving man. (I think it's in "Delirious.")

It sounds like you've been bitten by the "it's different so it must be valuable" bug. All players hit this at some point or another.

Remember that eventually a man can actually grow attached to a woman he's sleeping with. And that's not all bad.

The point is to do what YOU want.

Even if it means making your own mistakes.

"I'd rather make my own mistakes than someone else's." - Carlos Xuma

Don't worry, I won't quote myself like that again. It sounds a bit pretentious.