How to bag the T-rex before my holidays!

[Ash]

Guys,

One and a half week ago, I saw a chick in the online dating system...She's 24 and a nurse... I sent her a mail and as we were both online, just after she read the email, she started "instant chatting".... I got her phone number 10 minutes later, with her telling me how I seemed different to other guys....

I called her 3 days later, and we met for a coffee date. The coffee date was fun and, C & F worked great, especially as she had a great banter, seemed fun and cultivated... After 20 minutes, she was really interested and she was the one starting some kino, which I saw as an IOI... (A good kino she did too where she just put her hand with fingers erect against my hand with was facing her and started swinging it gently.. Made me remember when I was a carefree teenager.. Good NLP.. I'll add this to my skills)

So I built some rapport with her, and what she told me did not make me run.. She talked about her work in glowing terms, her good childhood memories, her best friend, etc....

I finished the coffee date first, since I had a party amongst friends just after, and we started walking towards the exit and she even held my little finger.. (I remember thinking , wow that's a girl attracted to me!!!).. So at the end of the coffee shop, I just kissed her, and I could see she wanted more kisses.. SO we talked for a few minutes , kissed again and I left...

I called her 3 days later, She did not answer.. Left a message asking how she was, and asked her to call me since I had a great plan.... No answer.. 3 days later, I tried again, no answer and this time, I did not leave a message....

So I thought about what could have gone wrong and this are my thoughts...

1) She got what Carlos calls "Buyer's remorse"... But hey, we kissed.. DID NOT SLEEP with each other.. So remorse due to a kiss???

2) The way she was the one starting the kino & flirt, maybe she was just out of an LTR, was feeling bad and that should make me disqualify her...

3) She told me she was going to speak to her friends about me.. Maybe one of them was a chick that I started flirting on with in the online dating site... though I Never went to any real date with any nurse before...

4) One year ago I passed out drunk and was taken a hospital.. That was way before I started the alpha path... It's not in the same hospital where she works.. Maybe she did an equivalent of googling me up with the hospital network..lol

5) Other

Yet, somehow I believe she's a quality HB which I'd like to get & keep before going on holidays in one month.... Your ideas on how to diffuse this whole situation in an alpha way?

[Ash]

Figured I'd call one more time, while continuing to cold approach (See Ash's journey to success in cold approach.. )

Called.. No reply & left a message... It was a copy of the message Carlos said to leave when encountering a stalemate resistance in the Dating Black Book... For those who do not have it, basically it's a last call to overcome resistance & present a change-or-it's over for good message. Left it because I really had gotten bored & excited by cold approach (but another HB to the harem is always a good thing, especially one I like)

Got a response (sms) 10 minutes later... Basically it was a "Yes, I am afraid of letting men use me.. We had such a good time on our meeting that I was disdraught that you did not call until 3 days later & put on my armor again...

Watching Octopussy (R. Moore is quite good in it), I replied at the end of the film by calling her.

Ok so here, big question: On one side, this is just "feathers" she's randomly throwing at which does not excuse her behaviour. Yet, by phone, I refuse to get in an argument especially to a chick I met ONLY ONCE... I'd rather have a CALM discussion person to person.

ME : "Hey.. Just got your message.. Made me laugh.. I'll wait for you tomorrow at 10 P.M in from of X&Y café. Don't tell me, you can't, don't want to or must not. "

Her: "I'm working tomorrow. (She's a nurse) It will depend on my mood after work. (She finishes at 9 P.M)"

ME : " Ok, in the case you're not here, I'll have waited 10 minutes like an idiot & you'll be finally be rid of BAD but so sweet me. Hmm.. so sad... In any case, I'll be at this café & I hope to see you there. Bye.. Have a nice night."

Her ; " Same to you"

So I'll be there tomorrow.. What I still don't know, is what to do.. On one side, as carlos says, The reed that does not bend breaks & if you have an argument, let her win & on the other side, this does not excuse her. Ok 1), how yould you act to this?

I'm thinking of this: 1) NOT GET ANGRY & REACT TO HER INSTEAD OF WATCHING & ACTING.... UNDERSTAND THAT IT'S BECAUSE SHE WAS IN AWE OF MY GAME WHEN WE MET..wow.LOL.. UNDERSTAND THAT THIS IS A SHIT TEST.. .. MAKE IT CLEAR THAT NEXT TIME, WITHOUT ANY COURTEOUS REPLY FROM HER, SHE CAN GO TO HELL..

In any case, cold approaching continues in 2 days whatever the response.

What's your opinion guys?

[Maximus]

Hey I know this thread is way old but in the off chance you get this message...

How did your ultimatium turn out? Roses or what?