sticking point: Kino escalation

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Over the last few months my ability to attract women has really come a long way: ive gotten over my approach anxiety and have been an engaging conversationalist, and lately ihave been recieving a lot more IOIs. . . however I havent been able to capitalize on it because i cant get myself to use kino.

I know everything im SUPPOSED to be doing, but it isnt translating into action. Im familiar with the DiCarlo escalation ladder, and i am able to do the "incidental kino" just fine. BUT I CANNOT BRING MYSELF TO DO ANY OF THE"Overt Kino"
. . . ITS LIKE A MENTAL BLOCK. . . the anxiety i feel is worse than the approach anxiety i felt before. . .

I am in college and i have never held hands with a girl because of this one sticking point

and im ****ING SICK OF IT

ANy advice at this point would be appreciated

thanks