girl next door

[gingereverwood]

My neighbor next door to me seems to be interested in me. The other night she brought me out to two different parties. At the first party she was ready to go to another one after about 40 minutes, so I asked if she didn't mind if I stayed. She seemed surprised. I finished my beer and went with her to the other place. At the end of the night, she was ready to return home and told me she was leaving, but I stayed instead. In retrospect I probably should have gone home with her. The reason I was hesitant is because she was with one of her friends, and wasn't sure of her intentions. The following morning she texted me saying, "Last night was fun. You should come out with me again. Maybe next time I can extend my curfew." What do you recommend I do from there. I might also want to mention that she DOES have a boyfriend, not that this is going to stop me, it's just an obstacle in my eyes.

[Maximus]

I don't think you should do anything with this chick for 2 reasons:

1. She lives next door. Hit it and quit it is gonna be hard lol and say you get to where you want to be (I'm assuming in her bed) then what? Think it through.

2. She has a boyfriend. If you like her, this shouldnt stop you from flirting with her. If she responds, its up to her. But have some integrity dude. I think doing anything with this chick beyond flirting is a punk move.

[IrishEagle44]

If you like her and want to date her - not just hit it and quit it - then you should pursue her. Where was her boyfriend? She takes you to two parties, she's obviously lonely or missing out on something, and she gets from you what "he" is not giving -- so if you're interested pursue her, it's kinda sad to see choice girls not getting the attention/affection they're looking for -- their only option to change the situation is what she did to you - reach out to a new dude, try to have a good time... you know best.