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Old 11-01-2009, 06:33 AM
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Question Self Limiting Obstacle

Hey guys, I am new on this board. I have a HUGE self limiting belief that prevents me from talking to women in a social situation.

I am 5'3. I have heard tons of women say they like "tall dark and handsome".
I have heard some women 5'7 ish say they like men taller than them.

I have seen beautiful women walking around with men who are shorter. So I know it is possible.

My obstacle is, once a woman says "you are too short for me", how do I respond back to her (a witty response or something of that sort) ? In the past, my body language has been of a wuss and timid guy, after the woman said I am too short for her.

I want to change that way to reaction. How can I go about doing that? How would an alpha male respond?

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Old 12-04-2009, 11:05 AM
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I think the best response (and probably the hardest to perform) is to let her know that you actually don't care wether she's judging you on anything or not.

It's probably the hardest response for you, because you're insecure about your length in this area.
So take this from me: physical size matters 100 times LESS than being self confident about yourself.

There's a guy living in my street who must be as tall as you and I often see him with (really hot) girls that are bigger than him. And he just acts like there's no difference (and in a lot of ways there is none).
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