What is a QUALITY Woman?

[danlt]

Quality connotes completeness, "something" that is well put together of high caliber pieces into a seamless, harmonious, well functioning whole. Whether it's a tailored suit of silk and linen, an electric guitar that just feels and sounds just right, or one of those interesting and mysterious creatures of estrogen, emotional 'thought' & uterus.
So a quality woman would be radiantly healthy, attractive, cultured, worldly wise, intelligent, talented, moderate in mood swings, highly self-aware, well educated, comfortable with her sexuality, charming, reserved and adaptable in a variety of social situations, and generally have a warm, loving, optimistic, affectionate, and collaborative personality.

If one word comes to mind for the word Quality, in my mind, it's class. Class includes the connotation of premium goods, as well as a high social ranking based on both merit & authenticity. Class can't be faked.

She looks like...the inspiration for a sculptor or painter. Classically proportioned radiating youth-like vitality with a fair, symmetrical face. She dresses with good fashion sense, enhancing her femininity with dignity & decorum, yet enjoys fantasy play dress up in intimacy. Her physical appearance is enhanced by her natural and easy grace in motion. She walks with a balance that comes from deep within, with a grace like a dancer in all her motions from lanquishing on a couch to walking through a party. The optimistic outlook comes out in a spring in her step. The comfort in her own skin, let's her sway through a room unpretentious and unself-conscious. There is a calming soothing character to her motions, and it greatly enhances her physical presence.

She acts like she fits into the room and knows her standing in it adds to the environment and social interaction with warmth and friendliness to all.

What makes her different...She connects at a deeper, more spiritual, level both consciously and viscerally. The connection overrides and overlooks superficial and temporary differences of opinion, periods of distant separation, and outside opinion for validation of it's existence and personal importance. It transcends verbal lanquage such that anything can be shared without significant harm to the bond that bridges our spirits into a unified force that inspires in both self-improvement and advancement toward a higher potential and result in one's life.

What makes the hypothetical 'her' different is in her own recognition that such a 'feel it in my soul' bond exists and is at the core of the mutual attraction. When attraction is build on that foundation with a woman of quality in all the other ways 'fantasized' about, great things can come of such a pairing. It becomes a joint concerted effort to reach a higher level of human potentials with positive effects for all in both's outer rings of interpersonal relationships. Like bubbles of consciousness rising, and merging into each other, while nudging neighboring bubbles to rise to the top of a glass.

Why I'd want her. She'd supplement and complement what I am becoming and striving toward. She'd bring comfort and excitement, fun and energy, warmth and smiles, support and greater confidence, and pleasant incentive to pause & enjoy life away from the work which would fill every hour otherwise.
I want her, because she would deserve me as much as deserve a woman of that caliber, as I would fulfill her own needs in almost all ways far beyond ordinary men, and few others would deserve nor be able to fully comprehend and appreciate her. I would inspire and encourage her to be the most she can be, as an independent, fully realized woman knowing that the more fulfilled, involved, and passionate she is about her own dreams and life possibilities the richer both our lives become.

How long. Well it's a life goal isn't it and that's always just a pathway. Once I've found her, the process of discovery could take several years after the initial connection is known and starts the game. But the 'acquisition' of the prize is a never ending back and forth game or dance isn't it. The bonds increase if time & joint experience proves compatability in other realms past the initial 'attraction'. I suspect the bond is or will be set in the first few seconds. It's the spirit recognizing the kindred one. At this stage of my life, that initial bond is far more important than the sexual one. That will happen inevitably if the spirit recognizes and resonates sympathetically with another at the same level of life's journey. How long... one step at a time.

[danlt]

Ah. Good response, El Deac!