What is a QUALITY Woman?

[carlosx]

Tell me in your own words what you think a "Quality" woman is?

What does that word bring to mind?

What does she look like?

What does she act like?

What makes her different than other women?

Why would you want her?

How long would you work to claim such a prize?

[UC]

For me a "quality" woman is a woman who has the qualities i'd enjoy in a woman. For sure, she has to be cute (not specially with big guns and a nice butt). She has to be proactive, some ambitions of her own (whatever), positive ; in that way, she is different to lots of woman due to the fact she's a bit assertive and a bit of of masculinity. I would like a woman with has same passion as me to share some good times together, but independant as well as i am too. I'd love to have such woman when i found the good qualification i need in a woman.

[JishyB]

Quality for me, would be attractiveness, and moreso, that I can carry on an intelligent, intellectual, thoughtful conversation with her that doesn't revolve around celebrity gossip, or frivolous, thoughtless topics. I find quality in an educated woman who has as much drive and ambition as I do.

[jimrd]

Tell me in your own words what you think a "Quality" woman is?

What does that word bring to mind?

What does she look like? ................looks are important , have look after herself

What does she act like?..............................caring...hold a conversation...not stuborn...

What makes her different than other women?.............holds a conversation..sexy

Why would you want her? ............attraction....looks after her self..

How long would you work to claim such a prize? ..........as long as it takes

[Ash]

Originally Posted by carlosx

Tell me in your own words what you think a "Quality" woman is? What does that word bring to mind?

For me, a quality woman is one who is not a flake, who knows what she wants and is going after it, who is FUN to be around and smart and cultured enough to have a deep conversation.

Originally Posted by carlosx

What does she look like?

Well obviously very good looking and fit

Originally Posted by carlosx

What does she act like?

I'd say she has to be an alpha woman, who knows what she wants and who is decisive, and yet has that soft and sweet trait of character

Originally Posted by carlosx

What makes her different than other women?

The fact that she knows where she is going and has the drive to go there, and is yet sweet and caring.

Originally Posted by carlosx

Why would you want her?

Firstly, because I get bored with "soft" girls who in the end say yes to all I want. I love pushing chicks to their limits to see how far they'll bend for me.. And I get bored when I get away all the time with it..lol... Secondly, because I love classy, business-type women who know where they are going...

Originally Posted by carlosx

How long would you work to claim such a prize?

As long as it takes....

[rwit]

If I get a chance, I'll write a description of my girlfriend here tomorrow!

[Neo]

Originally Posted by carlosx

How long would you work to claim such a prize?

Trick question. I'm the prize.

[El Deac]

What does that word bring to mind? Someone who has a high regard for herself, an internal compass, strong self awareness of her own behaviors and reactions and enough confidence and inner strength to stand up for herself. Most negative behaviors stem from weakness and low self esteem. A quality woman believes she is deserving of a great life and a worthy man, and that life and he in turn are deserving of her best.

What does she look like? Hmmm . . .there are looks that I consider attractive, but those are subjective and have a little to do with quality, some losers still hit the genetic jackpot and come out with great legs even if they never develop the emotional strength to stand on them . . .how a quality woman looks, well, she's an outward expression of her self. She keeps in shape, she knows what works for her in clothes, hair style, etc and she controls her look. If she wants to look great for a night out, she does it. If she needs to look a certain way to project competence at work, she does it. She maxes out what she has.

What does she act like? Centered . . .she acts more than reacts, and if she goes into reaction mode it's because she has given herself permission to, not because she's externally directed all the time. She has situational awareness, knows what is appropriate for where she is and who she's with. There are times to turn it on, and times to tone it down.

What makes her different than other women? She sees living as creative act, not passive response. She designs her own life and seeks a man who synchs with her values and wants, rather than letting life take her where it will and adopting to where it flows. She seeks what she wants from a place of confidence. For all the talk of 'women testing men' I don't think a lot of women test enough, or test wisely . . . or they test without knowing where they want to go . . . it's not enough to know that the plane is structurally sound and can stay aloft, helps to know it's destination.

Why would you want her? Because she fits my life. She wont be a drag, she wont hold me back, I wont have to apologize for her . . .instead she'll encourage, support and inspire me to make more of my life and be great fun every step of the way.

How long would you work to claim such a prize? Impossible to answer because context is everything . . .on the one hand I've worked much of my life on being a better me, started evolving towards being The One for her long before she appears on my radar screen . . .a physician may only need 30 mins to diagnose and treat a patient, but he spent years in school learning how to do it. Same with women, once meeting her the fuse can be lit pretty quickly, but a lot of time can have gone into having the lighter primed and ready to go. Once I meet her, well I expect her to show through her behavior that my impressions are valid. If I think we synch, but after two months her handling of her end of the relationship says otherwise I'm going to reappraise and consider that I misjudged her, because again, a smart woman who knows what she wants doesn't need me investing six months in convincing her I'm it. There's a huge contradiction there. But, if it's clear she's investing in the relationship but there are issues and problems, I'm not going to put a time limit on their resolution so long as we're both seeing progress.

[Arcador]

Cool question!

What does that word bring to mind?
Quality...hmm. Quality over quantity.
Yep, that's it. Once in a while you meet a certain person that just amazes you in many ways. That person could be a woman.

What does she look like?
Fit, athletic, symmetrical. A cute face is a must.

What does she act like?
Witty (it's a major turn on), with no ego problems, positive, mature (but not act as old school teacher)

What makes her different than other women?
Her ability to see deeper than her nose.

Why would you want her?
I would feel fun, happy, not under obligation, liability or drama. She would give me what I give to people - good time.

How long would you work to claim such a prize?
Just long enough not to get obsessed.

[guess]

What does she look like? She has got to be cute, but she dresses in a sphistocated way. She doesnt show off her body; she doesnt need to.

What does she act like? Independent. Ambitious.

What makes her different than other women? She doesnt need a man. She lives her own life independent of what others think.

Why would you want her? She is cute, but she doesnt rely on her looks whatsoever. She lives a fufilling life without a man. She doesnt want me. . . which makes me want her even more.

How long would you work to claim such a prize? As long as it takes